Very often, the greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. There are great joy and satisfaction to prove others wrong and build the life you want. And yes, at times, a person must travel many roads to find its true nature. But I dare you to show them that they are wrong about you.
Do you let the negative opinions of others be a roadblock to your dreams and success? Should you agree with anyone who tells you that it is impossible to achieve? Why would you let other people define who you are?
If I have only one suggestion to make, it is never to let anyone tell you what you can do and cannot do. These people who can’t do something themselves are just afraid or gave up on their dreams and hopes. All they want is to try to bring you down too by telling you that you can’t do it. And it is always the greatest pleasure in life to prove them wrong.
So, blow people’s mind and surprise them because it is your life, not theirs. In the end, it is about you and what you can do. Life is also about proving that all things are possible. Showing people, they are wrong is by far one of the best satisfaction. And never let another person’s opinion define you.
Life’s Greatest Misconception
It is a fact that the greatest pleasure in life is doing what other people say you cannot do. There are and will always be individuals that will come into your life and tell you about the things you cannot do. But the thing is that it is still up to you to whether you listen to them or not. The term “I can’t” is one of life’s greatest misconceptions.
“Whether you think you can or think you can’t – you are right.” – Henry Ford
So, not only the word “Can’t” is such an ugly term, but you must banish it from your vocabulary. Your mindset and attitude are everything. When you make some adjustments to how you think, you begin removing the negative thoughts you tell yourself. It helps you leave that place ruled by fear. And you then can make significant strides towards your desired dream and end result.
Whatever is Your Greatest Pleasure
If you are like me, you refuse to believe that things are impossible. And it does not matter what your dream is. Whatever it is, you can do it, and that is the greatest pleasure in life. It can be creating a new app, or a different type of project, or launching an existing one into another country, or getting a better job. Know that anything is possible!
“Impossible is a word only found in the dictionary of fools.” – Napoleon Bonaparte
Thus, it always seems impossible until done. The word “Can’t” is used by people who are scared, and project their fears out into the world. It is employed by people who cannot see past their current limitations. They do not take into account that if given the right mindset, they too, can begin manifesting their dreams and succeed.
Yet, those people prefer to find excuses not to pursue their desires. They even start to damage your greatest pleasure, your work of making your dreams come true. But why do people do such thing?
Fear the Great Enemy
Perhaps, it is the fear of failure, making a mistake, or embarrassment. Maybe people are scared of change. I agree, when embarking into the unknown or taking risks, it is a reasonable and healthy human response to have such feelings. But there is no beauty without struggles in life.
So, you have to recognize that the fear you might have is just a temporary emotion. Realize that it does not have a chain tied to you. You can move, so you can set yourself free. Just remember that you are a miracle of nature and only need a shift in perception to see life’s greatest pleasure.
But again, for some people, it is safer to do nothing rather than start something new. They live in their comfort zone and do not want to rock the boat. However, life never begins there but rather at the end of your comfort zone. What a gloomy world it would be if everyone listened to those who said it is impossible to do.
The Greatest Pleasure in Life
The greatest pleasure in life is to do what makes you feel most alive. If people tell you can’t get a good life without a formal education, do it anyways. They might say to you, for example, that there are too many actors. Well, become an actor, and prove them wrong anyway.
Furthermore, people may tell you that you have to fight fire with fire, and believe in an eye for an eye. Then be kind to all anyway. If someone says to you that you cannot have it all, show them it is not true. And many will tell you that you cannot make money at something you love, have a good family and social life, and be successful. Then do it all anyway.
“Don’t ever let somebody tell you that you can’t do it! You got a dream, you got to protect it. People can’t do something themselves, they want to tell you: you can’t do it. If you want something, go get it. Period!” – Quote from the movie ‘The Pursuit of Happiness.’
Move Forward Anyway
Most people think that one of the deceptively simple ideas is to move forward. Yet, it is the very secret to success. You should always be looking for the next bit of ground to take and move forward. Do not be fooled by illusory obstacles that stop other people or what they tell you.
So, if you can make it your default setting, you will move forward to what others say is impossible. And when you move onward relentlessly, you can build the world you want to live in. Therefore, it is the greatest pleasure in life when you do the incredible, and your dreams do come true.
“Spend every second of your time moving forward. That is how you are going to get where you want to go.” – Tom B.
All Possible – The Greatest Pleasure
So, anything is possible if you have a clear vision, are willing to do the work and move forward. Try not to use the word “can’t” for a day or two and replace it with “I can.” And see what happens. You might be surprised by the results. In any case, you will undeniably obtain a new level of confidence and who knows, new opportunities may present themselves.
Therefore, in this world, there is not one single thing that can stop you. The day you feel that your vision, determination, goal, and passion direct you to a purpose, the power at your disposal become limitless. So, when you protect your dream and move towards it incessantly, it is the greatest pleasure in life because you are doing what people say you cannot do.
Sergei VanBellinghen, Personal Growth & Success Expert, Founder of First-Class Lifestyle & SergeiVanBellinghen.com I help and teach people how to get a fresh start and have a brand-new style of living after a divorce, loss or if single. I do this by using self-development techniques to help you grow, succeed and have a better life. Remember, it’s not just about growing but also about ending the routine. It’s about the lifestyle of working less, living more and enjoying life! Find Out How! Visit my Website http://sergeivanbellinghen.com and come to discover how I can afford to stay home and travel anywhere I want.
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